"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves."
— Victor Hugo

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Love is associated with happiness. This is probably because the one who loves you accepts you for who you are, praises you, and helps you heal.

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Do you know yourself well? It may be that acceptance of what one knows about themselves is the problem.

"I only accept your mistakes and flaws to the degree that I accept my own."
- Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset 

"So how do we solve this ancient problem? How can we not just tolerate someone who believes differently than we do, but actually respect them for those beliefs? Because nothing less than that will do. It can’t. Simply tolerating someone who believes differently than we do isn’t enough. 'Accepting' them isn’t enough. Having true and abiding peace with them means loving them. And that means respecting them. Because love without respect isn’t real love at all. It’s at best condescending patronization.
- John Shore

Where there is love, there is usually tolerance/acceptance.....

"I don't care who you are,
Where you're from,
What you did.
As long as you love me."
- From the song 'As Long As You Love Me' by Backstreet Boys

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Gl2QnHNpkA

A person's choices usually tell how responsible that person is.......

"You can transform reality with your very thoughts. You have a choice in every moment of your life…Every second you can choose to accept conditions as they are or take responsibility for changing them."
- Corry Booker, http://www.graduationwisdom.com/speeches/0080-booker.htm

From the song 'As Long As You Love Me' by Backstreet Boys:

I don't care who you are,
Where you're from,
What you did,
As long as you love me.

http://youtu.be/0Gl2QnHNpkA

"Love is acceptance. When you love someone ... you take them into your heart, and that is surely why it hurts so much when we lose someone we love, because we lose a part of ourselves."
- Unknown

Love is tolerant....

"There's no substitute for a great love who says, 'No matter what's wrong with you, you're welcome at this table.'"
- Tom Hanks