"'I may have forgiven them, but I’ll always hold it against them' … Okay, that may sound logical, but it’s not forgiveness.
Forgiveness is a releasing of emotional guilt you place upon the other person. It’s a choice we make that happens in the heart. It’s not a release of responsibility or an absence of healthy boundaries, but it is a conscious choice to remove the right to get even from the person who injured you. It’s a release of anger and the right to hold a grudge."
- Ron Edmondson
http://www.ronedmondson.com/2011/10/5-ways-to-tell-if-youve-forgiven-someone.html
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