Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

"You can sometimes get your own feelings across more strongly if you pretend that you're singing it from someone else's angle. But it's always from me. It's just a new way of framing it."
- Chris Martin

Thursday, September 17, 2015

"We define emotional intelligence as the subset of social intelligence that involves the ability to monitor one’s own and others’ feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them and to use this information to guide one’s thinking and actions."
- Salovey and Mayer

Tuesday, September 15, 2015

"By the time most of us are adult, we've learned to mask our true feelings - at least as they show up in our face - because we have to get along at work, at home, and in social settings. So we pretend to be interested, we pretend to smile, we assume a bland expression when we're actually peeved, and so on.
Of course, we're not perfect at these polite deceptions. We don't always manage to stifle that yawn completely. But for the most part, the face we present to the world is a polite mask that hides our true feelings....
But the face does sometimes give away our strongest feelings."
- Nick Morgan, 7 Surprising Truths about Body Language
http://www.forbes.com/sites/nickmorgan/2012/10/25/7-surprising-truths-about-body-language/

Friday, September 4, 2015

"Sometimes choices are made in the name of forgiveness while what is occurring isn't forgiveness at all. It is important not to confuse being forgiving with denying your own feelings, needs, and desires. Forgiving doesn't mean being passive and staying in a job or a relationship that clearly doesn't work for you or is abusive. It is important that you are clear about your boundaries. What is acceptable for you? If you are willing to allow unacceptable behavior again and again in the name of 'forgiveness,' you are more than likely using 'forgiveness' as an excuse not to take responsibility for taking care of yourself or as a way to avoid making changes."
- Robin Casarjian, Forgiveness: A Bold Choice For A Peaceful Heart

Sunday, June 14, 2015

"Hope is the feeling you have that the feeling you have isn't permanent."
- Jean Kerr



Friday, May 15, 2015

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
- Maya Angelou

Monday, April 27, 2015

Transfer of biases, prejudices, feelings?......

People are persuaded more by the depth of your conviction than by the height of your logic -- more by your own enthusiasm than any proof you can offer.
- Cavett Robert

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Objectivity involves considering the views of more than one group......

"This one goes out to all the daughter,
Love you all,
Whether you large or whether you slim,
Black, white, brown all dem we calling...
Love you all."
- From the song 'Ice Cream' by Coalishun featuring Rupee
https://youtu.be/_Jf069OgP_A



How obvious is it when someone is biased, putting a spin on the facts or twisting / turning around the story?

"It is easier to align our opinions with facts, than it is to align facts with our opinions."
- Justin K. McFarlane

Knowing your feelings won't change the facts, but knowing the facts can change your feelings."
- Marlene Chism, Stop Workplace Drama: Train Your Team to Have No Excuses, No Complaints, and No Regrets

Sunday, April 12, 2015

"Feelings could override facts, as facts could alter feelings. Choose the truth first, rather than following after feelings."
- Anthony Liccione

Monday, April 6, 2015

"Successful people have cultivated the habit of never denying to themselves their true feelings and attitudes. They have no need for pretenses."
- David Harold Fink, Be Your Real Self